Somebody said that the meaning of the word “wife” is wash, iron, falling out ect. But I think it has nothing to do with me. I am poor at house work, I do not know how to cook, I wash the clothes only when my washing machine is broken down, the clothes ironed by me has not difference with those which have not been ironed, I never fight back when my husband accuses me. My daughter always asks me:” Mum, you are useless, are you afraid of Dad like that? Why do you always keep silence when he yells at you?” “Baby, how can I care for thus tiny things with a man who cooks for me, wash clothes for me?”

Actually I want to make some change, but I always make the things worse when I try to offer some helps to my mother in law and husband when they are busy in the kitchen. I am drove off shortly after I enter the kitchen. It seemed I do not have the chance in learning cooking. So I decide to quit.

From then on, I watch cartoon with my daughter, play cards with my young nephews and do not consider about the cooking any more. I begin the King of  the children of my big family gradually. My husband then always sighs" God, how can you do this to me, I need a wife but you bring me an old daughter instead!"

One day, my parents in law went to hometown for something urgent, and my husband was informed to attend a meeting held in Nanjing at meantime. My husband was very worried when he got the information.

Before his departure, he said to me: Make sure to lock the door before you go to bed, there are some vegetable in the refrigerator, I will be back within 4 days, and the food is ample for you and our daughter… “

I keep nodding when my husband talked to me.

Just then my daughter burst into tears and shouted:” Daddy, please stay, don’t go. Mummy do not know cooking, she will be starved if you leave us!"